| Relationships Communication Getting Married Introduction Exchanging emails is one thing, but it is only when you actually meet that you start find out if you really are suited to each other. This page gives you some tips on getting together. Should I travel to China? From our experience, most men go to China to see their lady after first corresponding with each other by email or phone for at least 2-3 months. By doing this, the man not only shows his sincerity, but also gets the real feeling of being together. It is usually easier for men from overseas to travel to China than for Chinese ladies to travel overseas because of visa problems. In addition, most Chinese ladies still enjoy traditional dating. They like a man to chase her to prove his interest. In this case we also think you need to consider the lady's view point. You are asking her to give up her job, home, family, culture and food to travel to a foreign country to live with someone she has only met by email. It a big risk. And how does she know she will get on with you and will have some financial security in the new place? Of course if it doesn't bother her, it will be fine for her to see you first. But perhaps you need to be just a little cautious in this case to determine her sincerity in the relationship. In addition, it is a great opportunity to see China and Chinese people. The place is historical, the culture is colorful and the people is very friendly. It is perfect safe to travel in China. Don't forget, you will also have a perfect service from your "personal tour guide". Back to Top | 
