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Frequently Asked Questions
About Book "Chinese Women in Love and Marriage"
Why Asian Promise?
Please refer to our page: Why
Asian Promise?
We do not sell wives and husbands, we help people by offering Asian Promise as a platform for them to meet themselves and by offering them supporting information to achieve happiness themselves. If you want a "mail order bride", then Asian Promise is not the right service for you.
Why are your ladies
special?
Please refer to our page: Why are Our Ladies Special?
Do you actually meet and interview your women all in person?
We do not meet and interview every member of Asian Promise, but we do go to China to have "members' meetings" from time to time. Please see our page: Meetings. We have annual meetings in Beijing, Shanghai and Shenzhen and other major cities. Through these meetings, we answer questions, gain trust and become friends with our members. Apart from these meetings, we also have very close contact with our members at all times by email and telephone. Just like you, they share with us their concerns and seek help from us by mail and telephone.
Therefore unlike other many dating websites, we know our members very well. However as with building any relationship, those involved should take time to get to know each other to be sure that you are both sincere to make a lifelong commitment.
Do you ladies all can write or speak English and contact me directly?
Most of our ladies can, with varying skills, write or speak English. Since good Communication is crucial for a happy relationship, we encourage all our ladies to learn and improve their English by talking to you directly. If the lady is not willing to learn English and wants to depend on a translator or agent, we don't welcome her to join AsianPromise. We guarantee that more than 95% of our ladies can contact you directly. We have published her English level on her profile for your reference. The most important thing after all is her attitude to English learning, not her current English level.
Some of your ladies' profiles have been there for one year, are they still valid?
Our lady membership lasts for one year or six months. If she wants to continue her membership with Asian Promise after her membership expired, she needs to pay to rejoin. During her membership with Asian Promise, she can update her profile, turn off or on her profile and contact us at any time. Therefore all Our Ladies profiles are valid and up to date.
Since all our ladies are looking for a true love and a long term relationship, which needs effort and time as we all know, it is quite usual to see some of our ladies who have been on Asian Promise for one year or even longer than one year.
What does it cost to contact your ladies or become a member?
What does it cost to contact your ladies or become a member?
It is 100% Free for men to contact our ladies or become a member. However your kind contribution to supporting AsianPromise would be very much appreciated.
How do you ensure your service and members quality without charging member fee?
Unlike most other websites offering free membership to ladies, we charge a membership fee from ladies to run our service. We offer our ladies a quality service by offering them sincere men who are looking for love and marriage, and offering them good ways to find true love. Dawn Xiao Yan, the co-owner of AsianPromise, has written Three books for our ladies. Our ladies understand that in most cases men will have to make financial effort to meet them in person later on (safety and reality) and finding true love need efforts from both sides.
How do I get in touch with your ladies?
1. Contact our Ladies Directly
Step 1: Make initial contact with our ladies using our online form
(your email address will be attached).
2. Receive our Ladies emails
Step 1: Submit your profile at: Submit
Your Profile for Free (Please see the Benefits of Membership)
How long do you display my profile? How do I update my profile?
We display your profile at our Men's Profiles page for 6 months. You can update or delete your profile at our Member Login page.
Why
do these ladies want to find a foreign husband? Why do these ladies want to find a foreign husband?
Please refer to our page: Chinese Women
How can I protect myself to be cheated?
Please refer to our page: Precautions
How do I choose Between Ladies?
We understand your concerns very much. Most of the time our men start with more than one lady. After 2-3 months of corresponding, you should work out which ones you would like to meet. The relationship should be confirmed after you meet them in person and you should stop contacting others for marriage purposes after then (we prefer to publish a photo of you and your lover on our website in order to increase the transparency among our customers, see Our Lovers ). If you decide to start with more than one lady, we suggest you to tell her the truth. Our ladies would understand this and in fact most of time they do the same things as you do.
I want to call my lady by telephone. What is the time difference?
Unfortunately this is going to vary depending on which country you are calling from and any seasonal adjustments that exist there. Most telephone directories will list the time difference for you. It is worth noting, however, that is no time difference across China and Hong Kong and no seasonal adjustments. Use the following as a rough guide
UK: Call at lunchtime and it is
evening in China (+7-8 hours difference)
USA: Call in the evening and it is daytime in China (+13 to 18 hours difference) Australia: Call during the evening and it is daytime in China (0 to -3 hours difference)
Is the postal service in China reliable and secure? How long it will take?
The postal service in China is reasonably reliable, although as always it is unwise to send items of value in the post without using compensation paid or registered post. An alternative in large cities is to use a service like UPS. Allow a week for Airmail, maybe longer to rural parts of China.
Do I need to visit the lady in China or can she join me here?
From our experience, most men go
to China to see their lady after
first corresponding with each
other by email or phone for at
least 2-3 months. By doing this,
the man not only shows his
sincerity, but also gets the
real feeling of being together.
It is usually easier for men
from overseas to travel to China
than for Chinese ladies to
travel overseas because of visa
problems. In addition, most
Chinese ladies still enjoy
traditional dating. They like a
man to chase her to prove his
interest.
How can I get married with her?
Please refer to our page: Getting Married
Can you give me more advice on culture and dating, e,g. communication, sex, money...?
Please read our book
Chinese Women in
Love and Marriage - A Guide to Happiness in Cross-Cultural
Relationships to get all these answers and build up your
confidence to find Chinese love. Some of the contents have been
published at our page: Communication,
Chinese Women Asian Dating Tips.
Although we strongly recommend men to read the book Chinese Women in Love and Marriage, we do understand people need individual help, Please go to page Our Service to refer to "Cross-Cultural Consultancy Service".
What is the book about?
Please refer to our page: Chinese Women in Love and Marriage
Is it safe to use my credit card online to buy the book?
Credit card payments and donations are made securely through PayPal. PayPal is the world's largest online payment service. With over 15 million members worldwide. We also ensure that your card details are never recorded either on our server or on our office computers, for your further peace of mind.
How long does it take for me to receive the "password" to open the book?
You will receive your password a few minutes after completing your online payment. Please check your mail box for the email address you used during the PayPal payment process. If you would like to pay by another method, please Email Us with your unlock code.
After I open the book in my computer, can I open it in other computers?
You require a password to unlock the book for viewing. This password will only work on the computer on which you are on now. If you want to read the book on a different computer, download the e-book on to that computer and obtain the password from that book.
If I lost the book, can I download it again? do I need a new "password" to open the book?
Yes, you can. If you re-download in the same computer, you don't need a new "password" to open the book.
Why I can not open the book with the "password" you send to me?
There are some common mistakes that people make, please check the "password" you input against the following:
Can I buy a hard/printed copy?
Yes, you can buy a hard/printed copy at: iUniverse or Amazon.com.
AsianPromise Volunteers list
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Learning Chinese
Although learning Chinese is not easy, your determination and intentions to learn will be appreciated by her and motivate her to learn your language. Learning Chinese will help you to understand Chinese culture and facilitate the harmony of your relationship. Please check "www.ChineseHour.com", which offer you a tailored 1-on-1 Chinese online lesson. You can learn Chinese in a comfortable and fun setting!
Others
Please refer to our page: Links
If you have a question not listed here then Contact Us and we will do our best to answer
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