AsianPromise is an international Asian dating service. AsianPromise has been helping hundreds of couples find love online since the year 2000 and has achieved a very high success rate. Please see some of our Love Stories. 

1. Why AsianPromise?

AsianPromise offers a unique service, which is run by an Euro-Asian couple and is a 100% free service for men.  

Richard and Dawn Xiao Yan, have lots of experience with cross-cultural relationships. Dawn Xiao Yan, has published three books that help Western men and Chinese/Asian ladies to meet and to achieve happy cross-cultural relationships. For the details of the books, please see Chinese Women in Love and Marriage and Connecting You to Love.

AsianPromise understands that in most cases men will have to make financial effort to meet our ladies in person later on, and finding true love need efforts from both sides. Therefore we run our quality service by charging membership fee from our ladies only and only seek to receive voluntary support from men by contribution.

2. Why are Our Ladies Special?

• The vast majority of our lady members apply to join AsianPromise directly through our website and are not referred by agencies. This means they are computer literate.

• Each lady must have their own personal email address so that men can contact them directly. This means we don't need to forward letters or translate emails as many other websites will charge you for.

• Most of our ladies can, with varying skills, write or speak English. Since good Communication is crucial for a happy relationship, we encourage all our ladies to learn and improve their English by talking to you directly. If the lady is not willing to learn English and wants to depend on a translator or agent, we don't welcome her to join AsianPromise.  We guarantee that more than 95% of our ladies contact you directly.

• Unlike most other websites offering free membership to ladies, we charge all Our Ladies the equivalent of one week's salary (Chinese standard) to become a paid member. As a paid member, she can get free general counseling about love issues and a  guide book "Connecting You to Love" . This means Our Ladies  are not only fully-committed, but also well-educated about finding true love online, and are sincerely and passionately interested in meeting YOU!

Surveys and feedback show more than half of our ladies have found their love through Asian Promise!

3. We have two different levels of Free service for men:

1. Guest - Contact Our ladies for free for a limited number of times.

2. Membership (FREE) - Display your profile on our website. Allow our ladies to view your profile and contact you. Make Free unlimited contact with Our Ladies yourself. Use our Free AP Chat  room.

4. How to use our service:

1. Guest - To contact our ladies, please click "Email me for FREE" under her profile.

2. Membership - To become a member, please use our Membership Application Form. Membership is for 6 months. We will display your profile in the Men's Profile section.  Our ladies will be able to view your profile and contact you directly. You may continue to contact Our ladies unlimitedly, by clicking "Email me for FREE" under her profile.

5. Benefits of membership:

Benefits of Membership

To become a member click here

6. Cross-Cultural Consultancy Advisory Service:

We normally suggest men read Dawn's book Chinese Women in Love and Marriage for general advice. However if people do need individual help regarding cultural issues or cross-cultural dating and marriage, we offer a personal consultancy service with a cost of US$60 per hour (payment is made through the link contribution). This is similar to the charge for consultancy services that we are offering to Chinese women as well. 

Please Note: 

1. We are not a professional dating and marriage consultancy and our advice and opinion are only for your reference. 
2. We offer this unique service through MSN online chatting and advance payment and booking are necessary.